Dear Blaire White, From An Ex-Fan.

I was a fan of Blaire for a couple of years, but now, I want nothing more than to wash my hands of her. While it might be true that she's a huge influence and inspiration to many people, it's important to let her fans know the truth. I've briefly touched on my feelings on my Instagram Stories, but I've yet to go into detail about my personal grievances with Blaire. While I will admit that knowing the Blaire I used to watch will never come back has made me sad, I know that this post will not only help me move on, but it will also hopefully help people realise that this woman doesn't give a fuck about anyone but herself.

Lying, Hypocrisy & Bullying

Blaire has the same mentality that SJWs have of "it's OK when I do it". She thinks that her fans are so stupid (a lot of them are if I'm being honest) that they won't call her out whenever she does something wrong. The fact the's able to get away with treating her fans so badly is appalling. 

Many people might argue that she's 'growing as a person', but I don't believe that at all. I remember when Blaire uploaded a video about stepping down from political commentary in September 2018. However, she's yet to actually stand by her words. She's still making political commentary videos. She also claimed on Twitter to cut alcohol out of her life, but has been seen in several videos taking shots of alcohol.

It's also extremely ironic how in her video about 'stopping political commentary', she talked about when she was going to debate on a show, someone from the company told her to tell her opponent that she looks less like a woman compared to her and how appalled she was that someone would tell her to such a thing for the sake of pleasing transphobes yet this is the same woman who called Janae Rose, a trans woman, a man multiple times and photoshopped a beard onto the face of Rachel Anne Williams, a trans woman, for a thumbnail of one of her videosI find it funny how she always projects her narcissism, insecurities and toxic femininity (which is ironic considering how she made a video about toxic femininity) onto other trans women yet people still go out of their way to call her a man.

Blaire also likes to talk about people blocking her on Twitter as well as those who tweet and delete, but fails to mention the fact that she's guilty of doing those exact same things. She also seems to have a problem with people who fight publicly online and calling all drama channels 'cancerous' yet she has an extensive history of involving herself in drama and being a massive attention-seeker. For example, in August 2018, Blaire tweeted something about Demi Lovato and Miss London, another trans female YouTuber, replied to it. However, the thing that got Blaire in her feelings was that before she deleted her original tweet, London attached a screenshot of her tweet responding to Blaire. This caused her to receive intense backlash from Blaire's fans. What followed next was a Instagram Live spat that also included another trans female and former YouTuber, Theryn Meyer, a former trans YouTuber and activist, and livestreams that consisted of a lot of shit talking. On one side, we had London and Ella Grant, another trans female YouTuber. On the other hand, we had Blaire and Eden The Doll, who just so happens to be the subject of the next drama. Eden The Doll is a trans Instagram model, YouTuber and former Vogue model who was one of Blaire's closest friends until Blaire decided to go onto her Instagram to shade Eden. After that happened, Blaire and Eden continued to come for one another when answering questions on their Instagram Stories.

In July and August 2019, she falsely accused two people of being predators. First, she accused a girl named Stefani Lee of being a predator on Twitter. Even though Blaire made the mistake of confusing her with a known TikTok predator, Mama Stef, she never made a public apology to her. She even had the gall to try to make herself look like the victim when confronted by a trans woman named Matilyn Wyatt in Twitter DMs. The second incident was to do with Blaire mistaking a drag queen for an actual predator when she used a picture of this drag queen in a thumbnail, but quickly changed it when she was called out by numerous people. Like the previous, she never bothered to issue a public apology and acted like nothing happened.

Her Beef With Drag Culture & Weird Comments About Gay Men

For some strange reason, Blaire seems to have a huge issue with gay men and drag culture. In her video about Desmond Is Amazing, she randomly started talking about not liking RuPaul's Drag Race and made a bizarre claim about her fiancé, Joey Sarson, worked in production with absolutely no evidence. She also claimed that kids at DragCon were dressed inappropriately and made it look like World Of Wonder (the company that owns RuPaul’s Drag Race) was promoting this when that’s absolutely not the case. Yes, the Desmond situation’s extremely disturbing, but to say that gender non-conforming kids and a show that’s helped bring drag culture to the mainstream are partially to blame is absolutely disgusting. Also, while it’s definitely important to shine light on serious issues happening within the drag community, her reasons for making those videos are much more personal than they seem. Also, as mentioned in my previous point, in a thumbnail for a video about a drag queen who’s an actual predator, she used another drag queen’s photo and only changed that picture to one of the actual predator when she got called out included in the thumbnail of a video talking about the predatory drag queen.

In regards to gay men, she made a bizarre tweet about all men, including gay men, liking boobs, which is an incredibly bizarre thing to say.

The Other Trans Influencers She's Influenced

Kalvin Garrah and Storm Ryan (who's since disassociated from Kalvin's circle) bullied another trans male YouTuber, Caden Workman, over jokes he made about them. Yes, jokes. Imagine having egos so huge and fragile and being so insecure that you go out of your way to bully someone over harmless jokes. You'd think that due to the combined number of subscribers they have (over 800K) compared to Caden's (over 4K) and because of how nasty they've been towards someone who didn't do anything wrong, London would condemn their toxic behaviour, but she hasn't. Why would London say to Caden that he's one of her favourite YouTubers, but not come to his defence whenever he gets attacked by those two guys for no good reason? Why would you stand back and watch your 'favourite YouTuber' get maliciously attacked for the dumbest reasons? Why does she think that playing with people's emotions like that is OK? Well, we shouldn't be too surprised by this because she too is guilty of bullying Janae Rose on Twitter. 

What’s also extremely messed up is how Kalvin’s fans caused someone to attempt suicide, called the suicide attempt fake, mocked those who were rightfully calling him out and made an abysmal non-apology video where he refuses to take any responsibility for what he's done. Not surprisingly, Blaire defend him in a livestream because like him, she has an extremely toxic fanbase and refuses to take any responsibility for her actions.).

Going back to the suicide attempt scandal, Kalvin seems to be obsessed with talking about being a law student,  claiming to 'know the law' and calling out those who break the law yet he refuses to admit that he committed crimes? Just because you're a law student doesn't mean you automatically know everything about the law, Kalvin. If anything, it makes you look like someone who wants to abuse their position of power to get what their want. Corruption within the law is a huge problem that plagues society and you're part of the problem. He's also made many racist comments.


Racism

Speaking of racism, I find it funny how in two videos, Blaire said she never said racist stuff on her videos and doesn't have a racist past yet she admitted in a live conversation with Onision that she said racial slurs in the past, has a video of her saying it (My Roommate's Cray Cray Friend, which has since been taken down) and has made these tweets, which she tried to delete and crop:


Leeching & Backstabbing

When she's not pandering and virtue signalling to right-wingers, she's social climbing and leeching off other right-wing YouTubers and throwing them under the bus when she's done with them. In a video she made about the situation between Carlos Maza and Steven Crowder (The Truth About Steven Crowder), Blaire admitted that Steven financially supported her and even though she claimed to be thankful, she went onto expose how he's a fraud. If you knew this person was lying about the things they say, why would you go out of your way to accept money from them? Also, why hasn't Steven responded to her claims? If Blaire knew about the amount of frauds in the political commentary community, why didn't she say something earlier? Why was she so happy to work with them if she knew what they were really like?

Her Fiancé

Sobriety and addiction are very serious topics that are extremely triggering for many people. It's important for people who are struggling with addiction to surround themselves with people who genuinely care about them and want them to recover and become better people, not enablers who don't care if they end up dead. It's also important for parent who have been struggling with addiction to not only do everything they can to better themselves for the sake of their families, but also make sure that their children don’t go down the same dangerous paths as them. With that being said, Joey Sarson’s battle with alcoholism and the way he and Blaire chose to deal with it deeply concerns me. I find it highly grossly hypocritical how Blaire acted holier-than-thou while raking her fiancé through the coals and claimed to have cut alcohol out of her life on Twitter yet in early June 2019, she made a video with Jaclyn Glenn, an atheist YouTuber and one of her enablers taking shots. Moving on from all that, this might seem like a huge nitpick to a lot of people and I know I'm going to be accused of 'reaching', but honestly, I'm not bothered. Why does Blaire's fiancé, Joey Sarson, always use her first and last name in the titles of his videos? What's wrong with just saying 'with my fiancée' or 'with Blaire'? I get wanting to show support for your partner, but there's a difference between that and being a clout chaser who leeches off people for fame. I think's he aware of the fact that if he doesn't continuously use Blaire's name to get attention, hardly anyone would care about him. No normal spouse would do what Joey's doing and I don't understand why people aren't giving him the side eye.

Scamming

You might be surprised to know that the situation regarding Lust Bracelets isn't the only time Blaire scammed her fans.

The first controversy was back in 2016 when an app called Candid was being promoted. The company who made the app was exposed for lying about not only about having broken AI, but also not collecting the data and personal information of users. Blaire was one of the many people who signed a contract with this company knowing that there were restrictions. Instead of looking deeper into this contract, Blaire blinded herself with money, signed it and went out of her way to blatantly lie to her fansThis situation makes me feel like such an idiot because I failed to look into this situation earlier. 

The second one was in 2017 when she decided to pull out from a debate with ContraPoints and Theryn Meyer that was meant to take place at the Free Speech Club in Vancouver without letting anyone know about it. To add insult to injury, people had already booked plane tickets. While I'm not a fan of ContraPoints, I felt bad that she had to apologise to everyone on Twitter on behalf of Blaire.



If you were to look back on the fact that she had her own tour as well as the temper tantrums she threw on Instagram, Twitter and in a YouTube video after she found the LGBT Centre cancelled an event she was meant to be a part of, it all makes her look incredibly hypocritical as well as scummy. Like the previous situation, I feel like an idiot for failing to look into this earlier.

The third one was to do with a company called Lust Bracelets, which was exposed for exploiting the LGBT community to promote overpriced bracelets and lying about donating the LGBT organisations. I made an Instagram post talking about it as well as other things relating to my feelings about Blaire as well as people like Kalvin and Ryan. Sam Collins, who was one of the people who promoted Lust Bracelets, actually had the decency to give those who might've bought the bracelets a heartfelt apology. He and the person who made the tweet that got Sam's attention also found a lot of interesting information regarding the scummy things the company's been doing. What I found the most bizarre about Blaire's comment towards me was when I revisited Blaire's Instagram page, the post that promoted Lust Bracelets was no longer there. If I was lying, why would she go out of her way to delete a post that promoted the company? Also, when it comes to Storm Ryan, I find it hilarious how he had the nerve to come for me as well when he himself called out the company.

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